I remember hearing once that if you frame a desire in the form of "I wonder..." you will take the pressure off of it.
In other words, thinking, "I want a new car. How will I get a new car?" is one kind of energy. It's the kind of energy that asks what you are going to do to get that car.
It doesn't ask what the universe is going to do. It doesn't ask what can be done to align all the stars in your favor. It puts it all... on you.
But when you ask it a different way, "I wonder how I will get a new car?" the energy flows in a completely different way. For one thing, it assumes you will get the new car. Alright! That's a relief already.
And for another, it doesn't ask how you will do it. It just assumes it'll be done, and it will surprise and delight you in how it happens.
Try playing with the "I wonder..." wording today and notice how you feel. It might be just the shift in energy that you needed!